You can't fix a feeling once it has come into existence. Not at that moment, anyway. It's like a musical note in a song. It is what it is. If it seems off or you want it to be different, you'll set the intention and do what you have to do to play it differently next time. Sometimes it won't happen - we're human. But hopefully it does and you can get a good feeling of its resonance and harmony with the whole song when it is aligned more closely to our wavelength and vibration, which is our life.
Sometimes you need to wait for a particular part of the song to finish, or a note to stop reverberating, before you can try again. Sometimes we may be so tired from playing constantly that we need a break, or to try it again the next day. But patience and awareness is an important part of the process. Sometimes an outside perspective can help shape our method and help it be more in harmony with not only ourselves, but those around us that we care about.
Feelings fade, good or bad. They do not last forever unless we keep hitting that note. What is a song with all high or low tones? A very grating one, personally speaking. What's the point if it's always the same feeling or note? Maybe the record is broken and needs a bit of extra attention to adjust.
We shouldn't take other peoples feelings personally or try to excuse our actions if they came forth because of them. If you feel attacked, it is not the feeling. It is the mind at work. A protective response, and it goes both ways. It's sown in discord and distrust that we gain naturally in this life of varying music and chords. But it can be just as beautiful, if we let it and try.
